Josh and Josh are both single again.
Each of our relationships ended exactly two weeks apart from each other and, strangely, two weeks apart almost to the very minute.
The most popular question upon hearing this news, of course, is "What happened? Why'd you guys break up?" But let us say two things: One, both of our guys did the breaking, not us. And two, like most longer-term relationships that end, the how and the why are complicated and messy and probably best to not give a tidy summary, if only because there's little about it that's tidy. The truth is that the relationships are, quite simply, over.
All of that is part of why our posts were a little more sparse during October.
Breakups really suck. A lot. They hurt. Then they feel a little better. Then they hurt again, but maybe not as much as they did at first. And then it hurts again, maybe a little less than before. But then it still hurts.
It's a process.
But we're doing it. We're going through it, step by step, day by day.
And luckily, as always, we do have each other. That makes it just a little easier.
Thanks for hanging in there with us.